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Monday, November 10, 2008
Becoming a "green" parent is not as easy as one day flipping a switch. I can't pinpoint the exact moment or particular trigger that sparked my enthusiasm for leading a safer lifestyle. For years, I turned a blind eye and loaded my shopping cart with chemically laden items at the store and left the safety aspect up to the product manufacturers. In essence, I trusted them. I can tell you wholeheartedly that ignorance really is bliss.
When I was growing up, my mother would always tell me, "You don't need to put all those chemicals all over your body!", but I did exactly that. I always felt slighted as a kid because my parents weren't like everyone else's. We only had the kind of peanut butter you ground yourself at the health food store. We ate hot dogs made of tofu (Tofu Pups... and they remain one of my favorite things to eat to this day). We had "natural" soda and ice cream made of rice. When my friends came over after school they'd take one look in our snack cabinet and say "Let's go to my house, we have fruit rollups."
At the time, I hated it. I wanted my house to be filled with fruit loops, soda, and gummy bears. I wanted "real" peanut butter, the kind with sugar and preservatives and the brightly colored lid. We weren't complete hippies. We still used regular dish soap and didn't recycle and probably used more bottles of Salon Selectives shampoo than we care to admit. But my parents were conscious of eating healthy and of minding the chemical exposure in our home which included avoiding pesticides and fertilizers.
As an adult with a child, I now have a deep appreciation for the awareness my parents instilled in me. Once my son arrived in the world, it all came flooding back. Only now, not only did I have the basics I learned from my parents, I had a hunger for achieving a grander sense of health and safety for my family. I wanted to eat more organically, use less chemicals around the house, make less waste, and stop putting chemicals all over my body. I started scouring websites and university studies to learn more about what I really needed to avoid. I emailed companies and asked questions. I collected links and documents. Soon, I felt empowered! I felt that I didn't have to rely so heavily on consumer products to get what I needed to feel safer and healthier. I felt a change for the better, and breathed a sigh of relief.
Being "green" is no easy feat, I've learned. It's a process that can take months or even years to achieve and even then, it's not a complete state of perfection. I still don't have a completely non-toxic life, but the great thing is that there is always room for improvement and change. There is always another step you can take to be more aware of your impact on the world. Everyday I take another step forward into that lovely dark shade of green. Ignorance can be blissful, but being in control of your life and making choices to create a healthy family and a healthy planet, make for a much better night's sleep.
Katherine Scoleri is the founder and editor of SafeMama.com, co-owner of a professional web design company Moxie Design Studios, mother of a 2 1/2 year old son, and the author of The IT Girls' Guide to Blogging with Moxie.
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Hi there, being a Mom, I could realize after reading the article that how important it is for a mom to be a green Mom! I just want to say thanks a lot for being there. We mommies just love you.
Nicole
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Posted by Anonymous on 11/21/2008 at 03:08 PM
I love receiving emails from SafeMama and I’m happy to see that Katherine has gotten some recognition from this wonderful and informative website.
Posted by Jason on 11/20/2008 at 07:03 AM
There are tons of materials in the net regarding this question. When I started digging Health Care and children related topics, I figured out that these are closely related to Sustainable Development. And here we are - the whole world is a single organism. When you care about yourself and your child - you care about others.
Posted by Heather on 11/14/2008 at 08:11 AM
Great article! I feel like I’m going down the same path you did. I’m so excited for my son to be born into a less toxic world! Your blog is super-helpful for that. Thanks, safemama.
Posted by Tina on 11/12/2008 at 09:54 AM
I know exactly what you mean! I always had natural peanut butter in my house and I longed for Skippy! Now was a mother of two I sent natural peanut butter butter sandwiches to preschool! I also use natural hair color. It’s great you should check it out www.susanhenry-ncp.com and the Salon that uses it is Shades in Beverly Hills.
Posted by sarah jackson on 11/11/2008 at 12:59 PM
I love receiving emails from SafeMama and I’m happy to see that Katherine has gotten some recognition from this wonderful and informative website. I try and pass all the information on to friends and family who think I’m “crazy” and “paranoid”, but I believe we can spark curiosities into the non-believers and hopefully bring at least one on board to question and seek out alternatives to the standard not so healthy or not-green available products. Way to go Katherine!!!
Posted by Alicia on 11/11/2008 at 10:51 AM
Gosh, Kathy! I’ve always been a fan of yours, but now I’m even more so! It’s so great to know that the work we’re doing to teach our kids now can result in such a wonderful, responsible adult like you. Thank you so much for keeping us parents in the loop by sharing your knowledge through SafeMama :)
Posted by Debra on 11/10/2008 at 11:21 PM
So true! I love everything you said. I grew up eating “healthy” too but I have also taken it to a whole new level. At first, it can seem overwhelming when you first realize how many chemicals are in your life but slowly, slowly they are disappearing from our house.
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Posted by David on 12/04/2010 at 04:42 AM
Katherine you’re beautiful (: Great write up, I’m trying to go green!